Women have lot to enjoy than to complain. Am I right?
Women have lots of things to enjoy than men, both provided by nature and the society. 1)Women know how to drive but they want men to drive. 2)Men give them a hand when they are coming down from a height. 3)When someone is in danger women can stay only asking for help.But if men do that they are considered as hideous. 4)When the country is needed to be protected, women don't go to war. Even if few go they don't go to battle front. 5)Children are closer to mothers than fathers. (Often) 6)Men have to do all the hard work in intercourse (but both parties enjoy it). 7)A large portion of family's income is separated to jewelries (In India).Men like to make women happier. 8)And more. http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AsA8ZPBNcn69UncJKN252hIYxgt.;_ylv=3?qid=20080222200325AAXO4YH I am not saying they are bad,or we should stop doing them. But the point is that even most of the women say that they have been discriminated and their rights are violated,they have these benefits over men Here is a nice picture, so you can enjoy. http://i.indiafm.com/firstlook/jodhaaakbar5.jpg To Laustin Founde: Yes most men expect that from women, but most women (same age) don't realize it. And some women here, always see the negative side.
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- 1. we do drive dunno what your on about 2. because that is the decent thing to do as we are delicate 3. thats not true 4. because we are back here nursing you 5. well we are good with children from a young age 6. it can be both ways 7. why not? 8.could not be a**ed to read the rest
- I think that generalizing really limits yourself. Not all woman are like that. Just like not all men are like the way you describe them. Not all men help woman and not all woman want or expect help. And that goes for every one of the arguments you made. It's more personality than gender.
- Can you get any more chauvanistic?
- I can't believe how men think. So what you give us a hand when we need it...do you realize how much women do for men.. men are like children when you get sick its worse than having a sick baby..we do your nasty stinky laundry we cook and clean we take care of the children and hold down a job on top of all that.. men just work women do IT ALL. A man goes to work and comes home his job is done, we go to work come home have to cook, clean, get the kids to sleep and ready for school the next day.. no wonder we have no energy for sex.just for your information not all men will help a lady down from height, and most men dont do all the work in the bedroom, most men dont care if their women are happy. maybe 2 out of 10 men are jewels so dont go telling me how good we have it..its not that great believe me.
- Yes. Thank you for recognizing your duty to be a gentleman. I, personally, enjoy being a woman. I do not feel that my rights have been violated. I acknowledge that I have and always will be discriminated against with certain things due to my gender, but I would rather focus on the positives than complain about what I don't have. That's just me though. I will add, though, that it is also human nature to complain. Always. Men do it too. As a matter of fact, it sounds like you are subtly doing it right now. LOL. Why do people complain? People complain when they recognize problems. But where there are problems, there are solutions. Among other things, men get to enjoy the nurturing, motherly touch of a woman in return. There are no substitutions for that. So stop complaining about complaining and come lay your weary, little head on mama's bosom. lol. Edit: Wow. I get thumbs down for babying men. This is what they need. This is what I give. I am hopeless. Sorry. The last sentence was meant to come across as humorous for being so exaggerated. As far as I am concerned, they are just grown up kids and I love them as such. I have received no complaints. I understand their nature, needs, and desire to satisfy. Most women are too busy complaining to let them. I love men for being men. I enjoy being treated like a lady. There is no shame in that. Give me all the thumbs down you want. In the meanwhile, bad times and arguments with my current best friend, provider, and protector are extremely rare. He ain't goin' nowhere! ;-) Edit 2: Seems like a great majority of women are suffering from communication problems. If you want him to help you with the damn laundry, tell him to help you with the damn laundry! And the dinner! And the kids! Tell him what you want! He can't do it for you until you tell him what you need. C'mon now. Me and my mate don't have these issues because we do things together. Don't let these things build up, and later explode on him for not helping you with things because you assumed that you had to do them on your own. Don't be too prideful to ask for help. If your man is too lazy to help you with the laundry, dishes, etc... on top of his job, he ain't worth it! Reality check... find someone better!!!
- I love the chivalry part. I'd rather have men do the heavy things for me. But I do most of the driving, you know. Women are the 'weaker sex' physically, and I am OK with that too. Even though I am independent. My jewelry has not been purchased by man. But we do have a lot to complain about. Life is very tough for a lady. Is much easier for men. And there is no doubt about this.
- A very beautiful photo thank you! 1) My husband can't drive yet but as he doesn't drink, it will be good when he can as he can drive home when we go to the pub! 2)Lol that's because we are wearing high heels! 3) If someone needed my help, I wouldn't just stand there doing nothing, I'd phsycially help them. 4) They do in western countries 5) That's because usually the mother spends more time with the child 6) If you are in 'that' kind of relationship 7)wow, taake me to india! I'm a jewellery designer so my business si jewellery. But yes, husbands should want to make their wife happy. In the UK things are much more equal.
- I'd say you managed to put together a large list of untrue stereotypes. Have you ever actually met a woman?
- 1) So why do we bother learning to drive? 2) So why do we bother going up on heights when there are no men around? 3) So why do we bother learning how to defend ourselves and others? 4) So why do we bother asking the government to let female soldiers go into combat? 5) So why do we bother encouraging fathers to take on more of a parenting role? 6) So why do we bother doing ANY of the work? 7) So why do we bother earning our own money and encouraging women around the world to do the same? Bottom line: These "benefits" mean nothing when, by and large, what women really want is to be independent.
- Yes- I love the comment for #2 - That's because we're wearing heels!!! No crap. Women are really expected to be this way. For instance, my boyfriend doesn't like it when I drive. He'd rather do the work. If I refuse someone's hand when they help me down, I'm being rude, aren't I? If we don't take the hand of a man and come down daintily, then we are considered manly, and we are trained to be insulted when someone insinuates that we are not womanly. I can't help it if my boyfriend loves to give me jewelry. Not my fault. Not my fault if I like it when he gives me jewelry, either! I don't think you're being completely fair. A man can roll out of bed and go to work/school/what have you. A female must take the time to present herself well (makeup, clothing, hair, shoes, perfume, etc.) Women have to come off as dainty and sweet, defending ourselves in a fight is "manly" and "b utch". Not very fair, eh? And as I remember, here in the states, it was the MEN who fought against women being in the front line. Not because we would be in danger, but because we wouldn't do a good job. We'd be putting men in danger because of our inadequacies. That's the argument I always heard.
- Had my license; truthfully would rather be driven. Anyways; don't see what there is to complain about; when "Sam" comes home from work; he's practically treated like a king. That's the way it goes in my home. Besides; no one can make you do what you don't want to do; there's no gun pointing at my head; real or imagined.
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